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Sunday, 21 July 2013

HEAR O YERIMA


 

There is a generation that looks to the previous ones and curse them my best book says, I wonder what holds for a generation full of corruption, political aggression and Yerima. If I were given a chance to introduce a new word into English dictionary this year, I bet you can guess what it will be.

YERIMA of course, and it will mean, irrational and unreasonable child molester and its word roots from the English words “erring man”

 I wonder where the thinking of a man could go disruptively wrong to perverse the course of nature, for satanic personal selfish reasons. Well if 35 YERIMAS can’t see that our female children have futures and impact they must make, we will show them that we as a people are still committed to saving the future of these future mothers who will train our future generation, we will show them that we cannot afford to cut out the girl child prematurely from her development and that we cannot watch them molest our girls and that we are a people with value and morals who have already said NO to

1.    GENDER INEQUALITY

2.    VESICOVAGINAL FISTULA (VVF)

3.    CHILD ABUSE

AND YES TO

1.    EDUCATION OF THE GIRL CHILD

2.    BUILDING A BRIGHT NEXT GENERATION

Respect the right of the girl child. Her right to

1.    EDUCATION

2.    PROTECTION

3.    PARTICIPATION

4.    FREEDOM FROM FEAR

5.    PROVISION

And lastly her right to be kept away from YERIMA

HEAR O YERIMA, THE GIRL CHILD IS OUR OWN FUTURE, WE WILL PROTECT HER

Friday, 12 July 2013

THE MYSTERIES OF LIFE

We are all created by one God
Yet some have the world
While some have no word
Help me through oh God

Same God that created merchants
Also  created the servants
Just as he created elephants
He created the ants
 



He created the leader
And also created the follower
He created the beggar
And also created the giver
 



Someone makes history
Someone tells the story
Lord in your glory
See me through creations mystery


Wednesday, 10 July 2013

NIGERIAN EMBASSIES: A BLESSING OR A CURSE?



Embassies, I think should be the powerful presence of a guest country in a host country, an embassy does not represent the building but in actual sense, the delegation of people sent on diplomatic course to a particular receiving country and are called diplomatic mission. The functions of a diplomatic mission consist, inter alia, in representing the sending State in the receiving State; protecting in the receiving State the interests of the sending State and of its nationals, within the limits permitted by international law; negotiating with the Government of the receiving State; ascertaining by all lawful means conditions and developments in the receiving State, and reporting thereon to the Government of the sending State; promoting friendly relations between the sending State and the receiving State, and developing their economic, cultural and scientific relations.

Embassies are legally considered to be the soil of the country that set them up so that, technically, when one sets foot inside an American embassy in a foreign country, he is subject to the laws of the United States of America. Embassies also serve several functions in the foreign countries they are located in.

I’ve read a lot about the state of Nigerians and their embassies in other countries, but I will like to place my emphasis on the Nigerian embassy in Ukraine, I stay in Ukraine and during my first year in the country, my ears were full of the bad reception the embassy gives its own citizens especially the students, there were lots and loads of complaints, which for a right thinking person could make you full of shame for your country at least within the confines of where you heard those, as a student leader I’ve been to the embassy and witnessed these things myself, many things happen to Nigerians here that a normal functioning embassy will stand to the interest of its people, but you hear statements like “we were not aware you are in this country, did you come and report to us when you came into the country” and also a most frequent “there is nothing we can do about it” which sounds like a rehearsed primary school poem when they utter them.

The delivery of the embassy in Kiev (Ukraine) is so poor that, of recent they relocated, but their website does not contain the new address as ignorant Nigerian who do not reside in Kiev become the victim of advantage-taking taxi drivers. A lot these things make me wonder if what we have in Ukraine as an embassy is really not a post office.

In Ukraine the greater part of the population of the Nigerian community are students, many times the authorities of these universities just bring in some regulations which are hostile to the welfare of international students, it shocks me to see nations like Namibia stand up for the right of their students while the supposed Giant of Africa sleeps. And one thing, not particular to Ukrainians is that once they see you’ve got no backing, they take advantage of you to the fullest.

I’ve once been threatened at gun point in my hostel by an Ukrainian who also lives in the hostel, though not a student to clear up our projector as we tried to project the 2013 Champions League final, few minutes later, my pro-rector who also lives in the hostel was out, I reported the case to him, with the man standing in front of us. Nothing was done, not even an apology from the university, and don’t ask why I did not report to the embassy, you and I know nothing will be done about it. At that moment I thought to myself were I an American, I would have cashed in on the University for risking the lives of their student. But I could not because I wouldn’t get the backing of my own embassy. I will hear words like “there is nothing we can do about it”.

There are a whole lot of others to mention but the problem with the embassy is not a horizontal one, it is an all encompassing vertical problem, starting with the leadership of the country, the embassy at the middle and the citizens at the end.

I think we as a people have not done enough in demanding our constitutional right, we seem to be comfortable with maltreatment and the only solution we proffer is talking about them when we can talk to them, just as the saying goes anything you do not confront, has the right to stay, I think this problem is little or no different from the problem of the general Nigerian society, nonchalance from the citizens and unaccountability from the leadership. But I think it is time to stand up for what we deserve, a solid representation of the people by the embassies.

Saturday, 6 July 2013

DOES AGE REALLY MATTER WITH RESPECT TO ACCOMPLISHMENTS OR ITS JUST A NUMBER?

just as the news filtered in that 22 years old Ezinne Akudo won the 2013 miss Nigeria contest, then it dawned on me how old i am, this bothered me a little so i decided to put it up to you (readers)

DOES AGE REALLY MATTER WITH RESPECT TO ACCOMPLISHMENTS OR ITS JUST A NUMBER?

UNCLE, DID YOU FIGHT WITH A LION??




Ever imagine what changes in season could cause? Change in time will be a right answer, but what about change in time? I’m sure you guessed change in culture and way of doing things, you can be so shocked at the revelation of how time and culture has changed and the norms of time past look so awkward at this present age, we’ve heard of the dark age, the medieval, the computer, jet and sorts but I wonder what age we’re entering.
Little Sam just was just visiting Nigeria for the first time with his dad, born in America had little or no knowledge about the African culture,  was struggling to acquaint himself with his temporarily new environment, got the shock of his life when his Dad introduced him to Uncle Shola as the family gathered to have dinner, in a typical rural setting of welcoming their just  returned son, as uncle Shola bent to exchange pleasantries with Sam, the youngster curiously asked “uncle what is this on your face, you fought with a lion?” everybody upon hearing the question busted into laughter, ridiculed Uncle Shola reluctantly said no and took his sit. 
 Tribal marks was used in the olden days as
1.    Mark of identification of the members of a particular clan

a.     Royal family

b.    Slaves

c.     Any other family interested

2.    Fashion
In the times of old tribal marks used to be an enviable accessory for beauty, in fact Yoruba myths have it that the origin was that a certain King named Sango sent two slaves to a distant country on an important mission. In due course they returned, and he found that one slave had achieved successfully what he had been sent to do, while the other had accomplished nothing. The King therefore rewarded the first with high honours and commanded the second to receive a hundred and twenty-two razor cuts all over his body. This was a severe punishment, but when the scars healed, they gave to the slave a very remarkable appearance, which greatly took the fancy of the King’s wives. Sango therefore decided that cuts should in future be given, not as punishment, but as a sign of royalty, and he placed himself at once in the hands of the markers. However, he could only bear two cuts, and so from that day two cuts on the arm have been the sign of royalty, and various other cuts came to be the marks of different tribes.
How could something meant for beauty (at least according to the forefathers) now be a subject of ridicule, it all boils down to the change in time, but now considering tribal mark as fashion, someone once said fashion revolves, so I wonder when tribal marks get back will you be the first to give your child? And probably we will see designers tribal marks like Adidas, Nike, Puma e.t.c on faces.

DIVERSION OR THE UNDREAMT DREAMS?




As a young chap I had things on my mind I really wanted to accomplish and probably not so different were other kids, I remember how I and some other kids used to be questioned by older folks about our future "what do you want to be in the future?" we answering with energetic optimism, say stuffs like “I want to be a doctor/lawyer/accountant/engineer” boldly that it even intimidates the interrogator, making some wish they had better exposure in their time, surest of all was the SANDALILI (standard living) song every child in my time and clan sang with poise.

But as the days grew older and sky attracting the heads of boys and girls as they metamorphosis, the sureties seemed to take a different turn as one time prospective doctor/lawyer/accountant/engineer finds him/herself toeing a different lane, now the question comes to be

1.    Did they loose interest in their initial dream?

2.     Did they just discover themselves?

3.    Is this an undreamt dream?

Personally I’ve never thought of anything else than being a medical doctor and a priest, I grew with them as though I was born that way, but having seen friends deviate from their lets assume original course, so I begin to wonder if I was special or something (of course I am), and though some might have been less fortunate, but three things keep me yet going, my parents who defined purpose and not career to me, early discovery of myself, and the third, my undreamt dreams one of which is writing, I never planned being a writer, as a matter of fact, my younger brother started writing way before I knew I could, but as I discovered an undreamt dream it never distracted me from a known purpose, but propelled me to greater chances, undreamt dreams might just be the lubricant to your engine of purpose but I think we must learn and tag their borders, so  that they won't distract us from our purpose. conclusively I’ll like to urge parents to teach their children purpose rather than choosing careers for them and young folks telling themselves the truth of who they are and want to be rather than live in the fantasy of a though possible but unfulfilling future. Believe in yourself and what you do best, what you can see you can achieve, even your undreamt dreams